Although in most relationships three is considered to be a crowd, many couples that prefer the freedom of an open relationship think of a threesome as the perfect intimate scenario.

If you’re a gay man in a long-term relationship, and you love hooking up with a gay escort on the side from time to time, or you’re one half of a committed ‘throuple’ partnership that enjoys sex with a regular third party, there’s always room for jealousy.

A gay escort is the perfect antidote to any jealousy that may occur in a relationship. If you are a sexually adventurous couple who want to try a threesome but don’t know who to ask, a gay escort is a neutral person who you can both enjoy with no reciprocity. Perhaps you are a couple but want the freedom to explore a more open relationship, then a gay escort lets you explore your sexual curiosity without breaking hearts!

Gay Sex Threesomes - Show Respect

To avoid the greed-eyed monster lurking in any type of sexual entanglement, it’s important to be respectful of others, especially if your partner is sensitive or the jealous type. Treat him how you would like to be treated.

Gay Sex Threesomes - Value Honesty

Ward off hurt feelings and jealousy by being honest with your partner. If you feel the need to look for sex outside of your relationship, don’t try to hide it. Talking about your needs will help your partner understand why you have these lusts and sexual cravings.

If you’re jealous, speak up and express your feelings. You could discover that you share the same viewpoint, and that inviting a third party into your relationship could benefit you both.

Gay Sex Threesomes - Set Boundaries

Boundaries, ground rules, and limits are important in any relationship dynamic. Establishing a guideline for your open relationship will help to prevent either of you crossing the line and causing upset and jealousy.

Don’t overstep the boundaries mark by bringing a NSA hook up home to fuck. Make arrangements to meet elsewhere, so that you partner doesn’t witness behaviour that makes him jealous, upset or uncomfortable.

Gay Sex Threesomes - Communication

To sustain a healthy relationship, you need to constantly work on your communication skills. Talk about what’s making you, or your partner, feel jealous.

If you’d love to have a threesome with your partner and a gay escort, tell him about your desires. Listen to his needs, and respect them even if they don’t match yours.

Gay Sex Threesomes - Open Relationships

If you’re both keen to enjoy the sexual company of a gay escort, it’s a good idea to define what an open relationship means to both of you. You need to accept that you both get to play with others, if you so choose.

Play Safe

Condoms, lube, and frequent testing need to be your priorities, if you’re engaged in having threesomes, or occasional casual sex with a gay escort while in a relationship.

Gay Masseurs know that a great and well performed Gay Massage feels great, is sensual and can lead to a great evening of gay sex, but did you also know that there are some extra benefits to getting a gay massage that shouldn’t be overlooked:

• Relieving Everyday Tension - As lots of us now spend most of our working day behind a desk many massage therapists advise that a massage is a great way to support or correct and postural stress from the way you sit at work. The massage can counteract this and relieve tension from sitting in one position for much of the day. We think that regular massages with a sleepyboy.com gay masseur will definitely help your posture, and your flexibility!
• Great for Muscles - If you have sore muscles, getting a massage can help – especially if it is given by a gorgeous gay masseur! Massage increases circulation around your whole body which helps relieve any muscle tension and any pain. Our Gay Massage experts can massage you in any way you please and helps relieve tension and promote relaxation.
• Human Touch is Important - Gay Massage is relaxing, human touch is sensual and relaxing when delivered by one of our gay masseurs. Massage has been known to sooth anxiety and depression, especially when received regularly.
• Improved Sleep - We know that you will have a restful night’s sleep after a visit from one of our gay Masseurs but it has been proved that massage does help relax the body and mind and promotes a relaxing and good night sleep.

The benefits of massage are well known and having a gay massage from one of our gay escorts is defiantly one of the most pleasurable ways to spend an evening. Many of our gay escorts provide in calls and out calls and the search function on our Gay Escort Directory online can find a gay massage specialist near you.

Gay Massage is Personal to You!

You can ask you masseur to deliver the type of massage you prefer, touch, pressure, length and timing are all factors to consider – or you can just let your masseur try to pleasure you the best way they know how!

There are many techniques in a gay massage ranging from simple and relaxing full body massages to multi-pressure points and different sensations can be achieved with different lubricants or toys. Don’t be shy to ask for your favourite massage techniques your gay masseur will be happy to oblige and will probably also offer some suggestions of their own.

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Ensuring you have the right condom is an essential part of having great gay sex (along with making sure you have enough lube!)! Luckily there are many, many different types of condoms now available varying in size, texture, colour, flavour, lubrication and styles!

Gay Sex & Gay Escorts

While the condoms promoted and marketed to the anal sex market may not be huge, you just have to be condom savvy when reading the labels to find ones suitable for hot anal play. The best condom for anal sex just doesn’t exist because you have to find the right condom for you. We all like what we like but with many different types of condoms available even if not marketed specifically for anal sex you will find a one you feel comfortable and sexy in. You favourite gay escort can also give you great advice on gay sex condom options.

Condoms are a now a mainstay for those who love anal sex not only for the protections against STD’s but also as a physical barrier against any anal play accidents. For those of you looking to have great safe Gay Sex here is a quick overview of some different types of Condom’s for you to consider:

Regular Latex Condoms

These mainstay protectors are probably the most common type of condom used, widely available (and often given away for free) great for just getting down and dirty with a sexy horny man. Remember if you are using latex condoms then check your lube - as you can’t use an oil based lubricant, keep to water or silicon based.

Non Latex Condoms

For those men for whom Latex is a problem (we do feel sorry for you, latex can be such a sexy material)! Latex allergies are easily combatted with these great gay condoms made from polyurethane.

Textured Condoms

If you want some extra sensations, then look out for condoms that include a little extra texture on the sheath. This can come in the form of dots, ribbing or other raised areas in a variety of styles and themes. There are also condoms that have not only texture on the outside to pleasure the ‘bottom’ but also texture on the inside to add extra pleasure to the ‘top’. Look out for weird shape condoms with internal ridges or humps to increase pleasure and friction.

Super Thin

Great and useful as gay condoms are, we all know that they can dull a little sensation, especially if you are not used to them so trying the ultra-thin, but still string condoms is most definitely the answer. Allowing you to feel as natural as possible while still getting all the benefits of great safe gay sex, thin condoms are a revelation for a more sensitive penis.

Flavoured Condoms

These tasty condoms come in a huge range of flavours for those of you who love to give head. Whether it is just a little lip teasing or full hard cock deep throating you can now do it with the flavour of your choice. Many flavours, and new ones coming out all the time include, cola, strawberry, bananas, chocolate, and even savoury tastes are catered for!

Other Condom Types

For those men who are very well endowed, XL Condoms and XXL condoms are available – these are sometimes called Magnum Condoms – great name! Coloured condoms are also becoming increasingly popular – forget matching your skin tone (although you can now find condoms in many different skin colours) and move on over to bright condoms, from pastels to neon colours are becoming cool – who knew! Other quirky creations like glow in the dark or odd shaped condoms are available but be sure they are to be used for sex not just novelty use.

And finally for those of you who like it rough make sure you get extra strong condoms – these are great for Gay Sex as they are probably the most durable for anal sex and also as they are thicker they can make you last longer and enjoy your safe sex more!

There are many reasons why you would hire a gay escort but one of the biggest reasons is that the gay sex you are having right now is just boring! Whether you are in a relationship or not sex is an important part of every man’s life and a part of it that may need attention. Below are some big indicators that it is time to try something new.

1. Feeling like sex has become a chore?

Gay sex a chore!! Well, if you are feeling like this it is definitely time to try www.sleepyboy.com. This can take a toll on how you feel about yourself and the partners you have. A sex life that’s as predictable as a 70’s sitcom rerun can make you feel like you are either with the wrong guy or are not trying anything new. Rut’s suck. They are boring and the siphon the juice out of just about anything: your job, your diet, and your relationships.

2. Same old routine?

We are creatures of habit, whether we want to admit it or not. This includes the weekly food shop and also your lovemaking. Habits are not bad if they work for you. The trouble is routines can become so…routine. Everyone needs a little variety, some hot and spicy chillies to spice up the same old dish can really make a difference so choose a rent boy and see how hot it can get.

3. In a rut?

Do you find your eyes starting to roll and even glaze over when someone says so what are you into? For too many men words like, top and bottom, have become like a straitjacket and they confine sex to very predictable routines. A great and fun gay escort can really help you explore many different sides to your sensual self.

4. Variation is key!

Try varying the pressure, try sometimes light and occasionally more forceful. Ensure that it playful and you are with a partner that you trust or better yet a gay escort who can do exactly what you need. Find out what works for both of you ask, “Which feels better, A or B?” See if you can learn what sort of touch doesn’t work for him, what’s pleasurable, what’s a major turn-on. When you have finished, it’s his turn to give and your turn to receive. The object of the game is for each guy to find out more about what sort of touch feels pleasurable to receive, and for each man to learn something about how to touch the other.

5. Satisfaction Guaranteed!

Very often unsatisfactory or boring gay sex happens because you are not getting what you need. The best, easiest and most fun way to ensure you get everything that you want and nothing you don’t is to hire a gay escort. There are a great range of guys available at www.sleepyboy.com just waiting for your call.

Whatever you are into and whoever you choose to do it with your gay sex should be fun, rewarding, satisfying (do we have to say safe) and defiantly not boring. If it is trying some of the ideas above and most of all have a great time doing it!

In its basic, bare explanation, sploshing as a fetish is the act of one person covering another with food (or other substances) for a sexually stimulating kick. It’s also known as a ‘WAM’, or ‘wet and messy fetish’. There are no rules about the food or otherwise that you can use; that’s totally up to you. There are also no rules around what – or what not – you can wear. Just remember that it’s a messy business and if you’re doing it in your house, then you may want to get some protective sheets for your carpets. Investing in the right equipment is always a good idea, then when you next feel like a sploshing session, you are ready to go!

Unusual Fetishes with a Gay Escort

This fetish is a slightly unusual one, compared to, say, a foot fetish or shoe fetish, in that there are no specific stimulations. Any food, any substance, any type, will do. So, if your preferred pudding is a chocolate one – go ahead and splosh with it! The same goes for burgers, cheese, chips, trifle……you get the picture. The turn-on for some people is that they don’t know what’s coming next. Perhaps you might be blindfolded, or have your back to the splosh-er, the anticipation of an unknown texture of food can be powerfully erotic. Maybe it’s chilli oil, or it could be rice pudding!

The most popular substances to use are:

• Whipped cream
• Raw eggs
• Oil
• Paint
• Mud
• Cream pies and slime – soft textures that are smooth and sink into your body

Sploshing with your Gay Escort

And then there are the cakes. Ooooh, deliciously soft, filled with jam or cream or chocolate or maybe you prefer coffee and walnut cake. You can get as many of these cakes as you can cram into your sploshing area before you cram them into your body. They’re perfect for jumping on, sitting in and lying down in. Once you’ve got the basics sorted, then it’s time to find the perfect partner! Your gay escort will be totally up for getting down and dirty in some fun - very messy – sploshing play. There’s no holding back, this is going to get truly messy.

One of the best things about this fetish is that anything goes. You can do it in your office attire, in your gym clothes, totally naked, in underwear – you can wear anything at all. If you prefer, the jam/cream/crumbled biscuits can be poured inside your clothes giving a seductive, silky feel as they glide downwards and past your waist.

So, just imagine that you’re waiting eagerly in your sploshing area. It’s perfectly prepped and filled with your very favourite foods. The anticipation is rising, and you know that, soon, you’re going to be pelted with Prosecco or have deliciously smooth cake rubbed into your hair, or you’ll turn your back so you can’t see what’s coming and wait for the tantalising sensation to hit your entirely naked, aroused body. Or, you know what? You could go all out and combine the lot – anything to get you and your gay escort truly and totally messy.

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One of the best reason’s men spend time with a gay escort is that they are so good at gay sex. They have multiple techniques honed over the years to ensure they can be the perfect partner for you. Amongst all that sensual, sexual knowledge are some great anal techniques that they are willing to show and share with you to ensure you have the best gay sex of your life with them.

Gay Escorts & Anal Sex

Here are some great anal sex techniques to share;

First Time Anal Confidence

If you have never had anal sex before then having it for the first time with a gay escort is an absolute pleasure. No fumbling, no worry, no terrible experience these gorgeous gay escort will make your first time anal something you will remember for the rest of your life. Taking it slow and steady is the best advice for first time anal, getting you really horny, making sure you are nice and clean and using lots of lube your gay escort will get you relaxed and comfortable before pushing his huge hard cock into you a little at a time making you wish you had done this sooner.

Anal Fisting Techniques

This is something that many men like but are unsure how to proceed or are sometimes to embarrassed to ask for it with a partner. So Gay Escorts are there to make anal fisting everything you fantasised it would be. Taking care and using lots of lube they will ensure you are happy, comfortable and horny before making you squirm with pleasure as they push deep into you.

Anal Rimming

Ensuring you are clean is probably the biggest tip when it comes to pleasurable rimming so start by showering and cleaning with your gay escort so there is no hesitation when it comes to this anal joy. Licking firmly and rhythmically is key to this exciting anal technique.

Top and Bottom Techniques

Whether you are a top or a bottom your gay escort can ensure that you make the most of your favourite position and as most of them are completely versatile you can try a different position than what you are used to without the fear of getting it wrong. Your gay escort can guide you in rhythm and sequence if you are a top and how to remain relaxed and open if you are a bottom.

Lube, Lube, Lube

The main tip and technique when it comes to whatever type of anal play you are enjoying is plenty of lube, don’t be shy, put a little more on rather than a little less to ensure a smooth and enjoyable experience.

However you like you anal sex the gay escorts at www.sleepyboy.com are the experts in ensuring you have the best anal experience ever.

Gay Porn is delightful but there is nothing that can replace great gay sex with a horny hard man who is there simply to pleasure you. Often when we watch gay porn and we watch the really kinky stuff we think it is unachievable but that is simply not the case. Kinky gay escorts love bringing your fantasies into reality and making you cum as the star of your own kinky fantasy.

Gay Porn is Great

Everyone loves gay porn and having a quick wank to it every now and then is a healthy and happy experience, but does it make you sexually satisfied. The real answer is of course no, gay porn is often a means to an end if you are feeling horny or a great place to get some fun ideas for your next kinky adventure with your favourite gay escort.

Gay Sex is Better

The reality is there is nothing better for sexual fulfilment that gay sex, you can watch as much dirty porn as you like and wank as much as you want, the release and orgasmic satisfaction for being well and truly drilled by an hot and horny man is one you will not get anywhere else and that is why the gay escorts at www.sleepyboy.com are there to provide such a service.

Steamy Desires Played Out

Gay Porn does provide an amazing fantasy land, but there is no reason why you can’t bring aspects of your fantasy or indeed your entire wish list into reality with the help of a skilled gay escort, or even escorts. These horny guys love to make you cum, so whatever the fantasy is they will find a way to make it real for you. Perhaps you want them to dress up as a solider and drill you, perhaps you want them to dress you as their sex slave and punish you, perhaps you want to be gangbanged for hours on end by many men, well this is all possible, you just have to ask for it.

Gay Escort vs Gay Porn

Nothing beats the touch of a real man, to feel him, to smell and to hear him, especially as he is pounding you. To have someone in tune with your needs, to stop and start to bring you to the point of orgasm and then leave you hanging until at last you are released for the best orgasm of your life. To have someone yell orders at you and respond to you being good or naught with treats or punishment, to have someone dress in the latex or leather that you love, to have someone whip you just the way you want it. Gay Escorts are the perfect antidote to a boring wanky sex life, and they are happy to make your porn dreams cum true.

Gay Escorts are Amazing

Whatever your sexual needs or wants a gay escort will listen to what you desire and then deliver it in the most amazing way possible, while we all love porn, getting out there for some true sexual fulfilment is the best thing you will ever do for yourself.

With the end of lockdown in sight we know many of you will be looking forward to having some great gay dates with your favourite gay escorts.

For many men, gay escorts are more than quick gay sex, many men love to have a regular escort who they can meet for romantic dates and have great gay sex with. With the summer in sight, we have a few great ideas for where you and your favourite gay escort can go to have a romantic, sensual date before heading back for relaxing or kinky sex, whatever is your pleasure.

Picnic in the Park

With so many of us being cooped up for so long having a relaxing picnic in the park might just be the most romantic and exciting thing any of us have done for a while. Pack a blanket, a book, a bottle of wine and some delicious snacks and head to your local park or further afield into the countryside to relax with each other in the great outdoors. Lying on your gay escorts lap while you chat, having him run his hands through your hair and whisper all the naughty things he is going to do to you when he gets you home, sounds like a perfect romantic date to us!

Local Cocktail Bar!

Do you remember simply going for a drink? Take your favourite gay escort to a fancy cocktail bar and enjoy the hustle and bustle of a busy bar again, with a handsome man on your arm making you the envy of every guy in the place.

Getting Away

For many men, one day or an evening date is just not enough, and you may want to take your gay escort away with you for a mini break or holiday. With international travel probably not happening for a while booking a romantic cottage in the middle of nowhere where you can be alone to enjoy each other or a city centre where you can explore the city by day and each other by night is a perfect date experience.

Classic Date Night

How does dinner and a movie sound? Yes, we think that sounds like the start of a perfect night too! Watching a film gives you lots to talk about over dinner! Go early then you have time for a delicious meal to digest before you have some romantic time alone having the best gay sex ever.

Sunday Afternoons

OK, so it doesn’t have to be a Sunday but meeting your gay escort in town to visit some galleries or museums, popping in for lunch somewhere delicious before heading back for an afternoon of kinky sex is a perfect date for many men so find your perfect gay escort and enjoy!

Part of the thrill of being with your gay escort is that you get to call the shots. If there are games you want to play, scenarios you’d like played out or role play to satisfy your desires, then all of these, plus more, will be available to you with your escort. Sensory deprivation is at the lighter end of the BDSM scale, if that’s your thing and Gay Escort are the best people to play these games with. Find your favourite gay escort at sleepyboy.com

Sensory Deprivation Games & Gay Escortst

Sensory deprivation sex games are some of the most powerful stimuli known to man. We have five senses and losing the use of any one of these heightens your awareness in the others, making every touch and tease so much more intense. Remember to set a safe word or safe signal if you are restrained so that you can let your gay escort know if you need a break!

Here are some ways to play with your gay escort:

Kinky Sensory Play - Earplugs/ear muffst

This is a good one if you’re just starting out to explore down this route, or you want something at the gentler end of the scale. Wearing earplugs means that you can’t hear things that perhaps you’re not supposed to. Or maybe they’ll be masking the jingle-jangle of chains and cuffs....

Kinky Sensory Play - Blindfoldt

Do you want a blinding experience? Using a thick blindfold to lock out the light plunges you into darkness and leaves you vulnerable and craving every little touch. You can’t see – so you’re not in control. As well as being at the mercy of your gay partner, the feel of the blindfold itself against your skin is often erotic, especially if it’s by association because you’ve done it before.

These more simple sensory deprivation games can be fun and fulfilling. But as with all sexual predilections, there is a darker side to explore. If you’re looking for a more extreme experience, then you might be intrigued by the harder alternatives.

Kinky Sensory Play - Ball-gagt

This is actually one of the most favoured deprivation devices. Using this as a tool in your sex play games means that your mouth is totally incapacitated. The submissive won’t be able to talk or taste and because this is often used in conjunction with a blindfold/head mask and handcuffs, it makes it a much stronger tool in deprivation sex games. A ball-gag is not for the inexperienced.

Kinky Sensory Play - Vacuum Bedt

Now this is a much more extreme form of sensory deprivation sex play – but as with all extreme measures, there are extreme rewards on offer. Using a vacuum bed is really straying into more extensive BDSM territory and it is only for masters of sensory deprivation. This bed is designed to remove all five of your senses and restrict your breathing. Given a super thrill with its touch, the bed will cling to every inch, delivering the ultimate in sex appeal. A true dream of a sensory deprivation sex game.

Kinky Sensory Play - Gas Maskt

Now this is a good tool for torture if that’s what you’re looking for; it can be truly terrifying. It masks four out of five senses – you can choose which one you’d like to keep. Again, this is not for beginners, but breath play often delivers the ultimate in orgasms.