With more and more men discovering the delights of online sex with gay escorts, there has been an increase in sexy video production, especially for those guys who have a regular escort and they want to share their kinky ideas with!

Whether you are sending sexy videos to a ay escort or they are making ones for you to enjoy at your leisure there are some things that you should always think about when making these types of videos.

Personalised Porn or Sexy Videos!

Personalised porn. Or in other words – make your own sexy video. And here are some tips to ensure that your film is as hot as it gets.

OK, so how do we start?

• Have a plan. You don’t necessarily need to be closely following a script, but forward planning and ‘blocking’ shots will help stop any awkward fumbling. Preparation is key.
• Similarly, if you have a rough game plan then you each know what’s coming next and if you decide in advance what you want to see in your film, then you stand a much greater chance of making it happen.
• Take care of the lighting. You want to see all in your sex tape – you don’t want to see it all. Be aware of shadows and stay away from harsh lights. Candles can create a nice ambience in a room and give a soft, natural light, but then you’ll have to be hyper-aware of the fire risk. Swings and roundabouts...
• Be natural. If you don’t look comfortable then you won’t look natural, and if you’re trying to make this worth keeping then thinking ahead about how to suit your very own porn stars is a great move. If you think that you simply can’t relax in front of the camera, then consider a role play. Becoming a character is often easier than playing yourself.
• Beware the camera angle. If it’s too wide, then you’ll be compromising on intimacy. If it’s too high, then you’ll only be getting whoever is top – and that’s not fair. Try a lower angle to catch the best moments - and the best shots of your best parts.
• Give yourself a once-over. Would you prefer to be hirsute or hairless for your starring role? Get yourself looking great; shaved, moisturised, pampered – whatever it takes – and that will fuel your confidence and help make you a great film!
• Create a Story – You need to have some sort of story to your film; it does not need a complete script but it does need a bit of direction and a reason for being.

Last Video Tip

Be careful – Be careful what you share and how you share, it while you may want to make the most outrageous video, imagine what would happen if you shared it to a social media feed by accident (believe us it has happened) so while you may want to go wild, remember to be a little restrained in what you do and say when it is recorded. Leave the really kinky stuff for when you have phone chats with your gay escort or when you see them again in person!

Every now and then we get feedback for an Escort that we feel we have to reward, on this occasion, Hansel went above and beyond with one of our customers during a bad time in the client's life. I always say that sleepyboy is like a family, and even with the growth of the site (over 2000 guys)  I Marcus still keep my hand on the rudder with the sleepyboy family and so wanted to say a BIG THANKYOU to Hansel for his service to a sleepyboy member! We have rewarded him with a cash gift and making him escort of the month for July.

THANK YOU HANSEL!

The explosion in couples wanting to have amazing, kinky, and adventurous sex in the gay community is amazing. More and more monogamous couples want to relive the youthful freedoms of youth and they are doing it together with the help of a gay escort!

Gay Escorts are one of the most underused options for gay couples to spice up their sex life. How many gay couples out there have excitedly ordered sex toys online, wait for them to be delivered and then found them to be a little underwhelming when they arrive, or they are used once or twice and the relegated to a box under the bed?

Exciting gay Sex for Couples

Yes, lots of gay couples enjoy sex together but often want something a little more exiting and a gay Escort can provide a real thrill in the bedroom. Taking away the problems of including a friend, or even picking someone up in a club, the first of which can have a nasty after taste and the second means going to the effort of finding someone who wants exactly what you want – which in reality rarely happens. A gay escort to spice up your love life is the perfect balance to have fun without any aftereffects.

Choosing a Gay Escort Together

The beauty of deciding to hire a gay escort to spice up your gay couple sex life is that the experience of choosing the gay escort is half the fun! Spending time together looking over the biggest gay escort directory in the UK, SleepyBoy.com can be hours of fun in its own right. As a couple, you can use the search function to find just the right gay escort in your area that fits what you are looking for. It is always good to have a few favourites in case they are already booked when you call your first choice etc.

Where to Meet?

Wherever you decide to meet your chosen gay escort is entirely your choice, in the main there are three choices. Your place, this means having the escort into your home, a good choice if you are a little nervous, want to experience it together in your own home, or have a lot of toys, gadgets or costumes you want to play with. Their place, this means you go to the Escorts place, this can be a bit of an adventure on its own and it takes it away from your own home if that makes you uncomfortable. The third option is to book a hotel for the experience, this is a neutral place and can give the whole experience a nice sense of occasion and romance.

Kinky Gay Couples

Often gay couples hire a gay escort because the want to try something a little more experimental than ‘vanilla’ sex. Perhaps as a couple you really want to try a threesome with someone who won’t threaten your relationship in any way, or someone you don’t have to owe a favour to later on. Perhaps you both really want to experience a gay gang bang scenario so finding a few hot gay escorts to enjoy it with is an easy way to do it as a couple, and lastly if you are both submissive or both dominant and want to be played with or play with someone together then a Gay Escort is the obvious choice.

The amazing gay escorts at sleepyboy.com have always found innovative and exciting ways to pleasure you, and providing great gay sex services in different ways throughout lockdown has been an interesting development. Whether you and your favourite gay escort, have been sexting, zooming, camming or having phone sex, sex toys have been an important way of keeping the gay sex fresh and interesting until you can touch again!

Here is an overview of some of the toys you should consider if you are trying out lots of fun ways to have virtual sex over lockdown.

Low Tech Toys

Some of the most satisfying ‘toys’ to be used in a gay camming session are the most simple. Some great lube or lotion can go a really long way! Watching your hot gay escort wield whips or other dominating toys is a lot of fun, sexy clothing, or hot uniforms are all low tech items that can add something special to your time with your online escort.

Integrating Toys

With the advent of better technologies integrating fun technologies into your gay sex camming sessions is becoming more and more possible. With just a few taps of your keyboard, you can harness the power of digitally connected vibrators and other toys. If you favour using a tablet for your camming experience rather than a computer, then there are attachments which can provide you with a first - person POV. These high tech sex toys are not about replacing sex, however; these toys are all about enhancement so you get a realistic camming experience, one that will turn and titillate allowing your cam shows to achieve a high level of intimacy every time as you now have the capability and power to do more than just watch.

Using Your Toys

If you have a favourite sex toy, from vibrators, to butt plugs, or clothing you find sexy then let your gay escort know that you would like to use it while you are having your session. Letting him know about your gay sex fantasies and desires will ensure you will get the best out of your time together. He can tell you to start or stop with your toy, put it on or take it off – if you like to be dominated by a gay escort and like using your favourite toy then ask if this can be incorporated into your fantasy cam time with him.

As technology advances, so too do camming experiences, leading to greater fulfilment remotely, however the best thing about camming, sexting, phone chats are the hot, gay escorts who can listen to your needs and give you the best, most personal and hottest session available.

Gay Escorts know how to fulfil your needs and are looking forward to doing so in person as soon as possible, in the meantime you should see how amazing this hot and sexy guys are at talking dirty and giving you naughty instructions over a cam! You might just make this your favourite thing to do on a boring Tuesday night in the future!

This may be your first gay escort cam session , or you may be a seasoned pro, but there are a few do’s and don’ts that are easy to remember that can make you cam session much more enjoyable and memorable.

We’ve list our top five below:

Personal Privacy - This may seem like an obvious one, but it’s very important to remember, for both viewer and gay escort. Never give out your personal details over a cam session, and don’t ask for the hot guys personal deets either! If your ever asked for details on a cam session, it’s time to head for the exit! It’s far too easy to be tricked into giving away personal information in the heat of the moment so try and stay aware of the situation. Enjoy the hot and steam cam session without the worry about your personal details.

Get in the Mood! - Firstly, spend some time looking over the gay escort’s profiles, select a hot gay escort that you want to connect with and see if they are into what you are into. It’s always best to select someone with the same turn-on’s as yourself so you are not disappointed later, no dom wants to cam with another dom by accident! When you start your cam session, don’t be embarrassed to ask the gay escort what he’s into, take a little time to talk over your turn-on’s and fetishes. By spending a little time getting to know your escort in advance you will experience a much better cam session.

Feeback time - This may seem a bit weird, but giving feed back to your gay escort not only shows them how much you enjoyed your cam time, but also gives them some great hints and tips on how to better improve your experience. We all need a little feedback and guys escorts are no different. By developing a closer bond with your favourite escort you can return to them time and time again with confidence knowing that they’ll get it right for you, just the way you like it.

Check your Tech! - This can be a major mood killer! Imagine the scene, you’ve spent hours selecting your gay escort and waited days for some time with him, got online and started your session, and the feed is terrible because your internet connection is slow! The last thing you want is pixilated, jittering images and broken sound when you want some hot and steamy time with your guy – make sure you connection speed is up to scratch, that your tech is up to date and most importantly – stop downloading and free up your bandwidth.

Relax and Enjoy - Again, this may seem like stating the obvious, but most gay escorts tell us that lots of cam viewers can get a little embarrassed or anxious about a cam session. Just remember to relax and enjoy your gay cam session, that’s what the escorts are there for, your enjoyment!

Beautifully inked muscles have always made us smile, there is something very alluring about a muscle man with tattoos, you can admire the ripped muscles and the tats at the same time!

Many of the hot Gay Escorts sport ink so we are taking a look at some of the top trends for tattoos muscle this year.

There can be no better canvas for body art than a ripped and chiselled body of a gay escort from the firm chest, bulging arm muscles to perfectly contoured thighs tattoos look better on nice ripped escorts than anyone else. A clever tattoo artist can also (if this is possible) use tattoos to enhance the muscles with great shadowing and contouring techniques that perfectly complements the style and body.

Top Tattoo Ideas 2020

1. Tribal Designs

Tribal designs based on Maori or other first nations people’s influence is a popular choice as it can be adapted to suit any style and any body shape. Shoulders and full sleeves look great in a tribal design as they are perfect places for a large, repeating or flowing bold tribal designs. Extending the same design down or across the back for an even more powerful effect is away to really use a chiselled body to show off beautiful body art. Polynesian designs that contrast curves with sharp angles look incredible on their own on broad shoulders, Celtic cross’ also look great when strategically placed to direct the eyes around the body.

2. Biomechanical Designs

A very modern, almost futuristic tattoo style a perfect idea for a well-formed gay escort’s body. Contrasting the beauty of simple muscles with a biomechanical style can create truly jaw-dropping designs. Commonly incorporating elements of the mechanical with the human body creates a real taking point and we expect this style to continue to grow in popularity next year.

3. Bird Designs

We are not looking at traditional swallow tattoos or feminine doves, but real manly tattoos that incorporate birds and nature. Popular because they can be any size and tattooed on any part of the body – Eagles, hawks and owls have been popular tattoos on chiselled chests, small flocks of birds travelling up an inner thigh add a touch of directional humour or mystical colourful birds like a phoenix can be a real impact statement on a beautiful body. Trailing feathers, trees, leaves and branches can also be incorporated for an earthier, natural vibe.

4. Star Designs

Stars fell out of favour a few years ago, possibly because they became very common, but now they are back! Star designs are so customisable it is the stars that are bright and vibrant that are making the biggest comeback, and these look incredible trailing in clusters down muscled backs and shoulders. Creating whole scene sleeves out of stars to enhance forearms is another top trend for hot escorts.

Whatever your favourite style of tattoo is, or wherever you favourite place to put a tattoo is, we know you agree that they look better, hotter, sexier on gorgeous gay escorts! Yes Please!

Sometimes we are just too embarrassed to ask the questions we think we should already know the answers to or should know how to act in any given situation. The truth is no one knows all the answers, and everyone is allowed to ask questions, especially when it comes to gay sex.

Gay Escorts are experts in making you feel comfortable and happy when you meet to in these strange time when social distancing keeps everyone apart here are three common questions or concerns the Gay Escorts on SleepyBoy.com get asked a lot, along with some reassuring answers.

The three main questions or concerns are:

• I’m Scared of Bottoming -But I want to try it!
• How can I be a Great Top?
• What is the male G Spot?

So, let’s take the first gay sex concern - I’m scared of bottoming!

Most gay men will consider bottoming at some time. However, the thought of doing it for the first time can be scary. Don’t let that put you off. You may prefer to douche before bottoming, especially if indulging in deep arse play like fisting or with large dicks/toys. Use plain, clean water, preferably at body temperature. Avoid using shower attachments - the water pressure can be dangerous. You can get douche bulbs online or from any good sex shop. Get yourself relaxed with lots of foreplay like rimming or fingering and use lots of lube, lots and lots!

Find a position that suits the size, angle and curvature of your partner’s dick. Any position where your knees are bent and drawn into your chest, whether you are kneeling, lying on your back or on your side, will probably lead to more comfortable sex, or will be a good position to start from.

Next concern - How can I be a great top?

Bring a great top is as much about the emotional as the physical side. Ensure you are reassuring that you’re not going to hurt him and that he’s in control. Find out what he likes. For some guys, topping is about being dominant (and some bottoms like that), but for others, it’s a two-way street. Ask him how he likes it. Listen to his reactions too. If he’s making noises that suggest he's in pain, ease up a bit.

The first time you top, you may be a little anxious. This may make your erection less hard than usual. Relax – you're both there to enjoy yourselves and your gay escort is there to make you feel completely comfortable. Lube, lube and more lube again!

And finally - What is the Male G-Spot?

Some gay men call the prostate the ‘male G-spot’ as it is responsible for a lot of the pleasure you feel when getting fucked. Substances like steroids can also cause the prostate to enlarge. But there’s no evidence gay men are more or less likely to get prostate problems than straight men.

Remember that you can ask you gay escort any questions you like, and they will take it as fast or as slow as you want to. They are non-judgemental and experts in making you feel amazing so let them, relax and enjoy it.

While everyone is in lockdown there are some things we are really missing, one of course is amazing gay sex, calls and cams are hot, but nothing really makes up for the feeling of a sexy SleepyBoy.com Gay Escort body pounding yours. Another thing we really miss is going to a gay sauna with a favourite gay escort. Steamy, relaxing, sexy and a little bit naughty, gay saunas are a real treat any time of day. Many of these saunas now have events and special interest nights which we are really looking forward to getting back to as soon as possible. UK Sauna Options

Dark rooms where you cannot see anyone and have to navigate by feel, glory holes, swimming pools, jacuzzi’s, playrooms with sex toys, steamy saunas and massage options are often available in different combinations in great UK Gay Saunas across the UK.

Here is a quick list of some of them:

• Acqua Sauna, Blackpool, Lancashire
• BASE Leeds, Leeds
• BASE Newcastle, Newcastle upon Tyne
• Basement Complex, Manchester
• E15 Club, Stratford, London
• Eagle 50, Cardiff
• Gentry Spa, Kingston upon Hull, East Yorkshire
• Sweatbox Sauna, London
• The Boiler Room Sauna, Brighton
• The Greenhouse, Newport, Gwent
• The Locker Room, Kennington, London
• Touch Sauna, Swindon, Wiltshire
• Tropics Day Spa, Portsmouth

Quick First Time Sauna Tips

Whether you have never been to a gay sauna before, or whether you are just a bit rusty as you haven’t been for a while here are some tips to remember when visiting most gay saunas.

Bags are needed – A lightweight bag will really help to place all your personal items in, you can keep this with you in the sauna or place it in a locker when you arrive.

Your own stuff – most gay saunas will have condoms and lube, but the quality varies and if you have a brand or type of lube you like then bring it with you and use your own.

Remember to bring cash – You will probably want to buy a drink and possibly some snacks depending on how long you want to spend in the sauna, many saunas only take cash so remember to hit the cash machine before you head in, with some change for a vending machine.

Flip Flops Make Sense – The best footwear for a sauna is flip flops or similar. You don’t really want to be walking around barefoot even in the cleanest of saunas and flip flops are quite sexy!

Drink your own drinks – this is a general tip for life, but it also applied to Gay Saunas only drink your own drinks and politely refuse if anyone offers you a sip of theirs. They are probably just being nice, but you just don’t know.!

Be Nice – If someone is coming on to you and you are not interested, for whatever reason, just be nice, let them down quickly, politely and nicely and they will move on to someone else quite happily.