The 14th of February is fast approaching! Often referred to as the most romantic day of the year, it inspires people to indulge in their innermost desires. Whether your plans are slushy and cliched and involve a restaurant and a single red rose, or whether they're naughtiness personified, you won't find anyone objecting to a Valentine's date. And certainly not your chosen gay escort!

So.........what to do?? You have a whole evening with the escort of your choice spread out before you (possibly quite literally) and they say that the devil is in the detail. Finding something to tickle your fancy has never been quite so easy.....

Sexy Idea 1:

Perhaps romance is turning your thoughts to experimentation? Maybe there are some bedroom moves that you haven't busted out yet and you're dying to try? Well, this could be the perfect opportunity! A little BDSM, maybe? If you've always wondered and never acted, then investing in some soft ropes, handcuffs and a blindfold is a good way to get started. And if this is a first foray and you aren't sure about the whole rope thing, then an under-bed restraint or bondage tape are both good compromises to get you going. (PS. In these sorts of situations, it's important to have a 'safe' word so either party can pull out if they want to).

Sexy Idea 2:

Why not have a relaxing evening in with massage candles? Especially designed for the purpose, these are made with soy wax so they have a lower melting point and therefore can be poured hot over your escort much more safely. And then – voila! You have some massage oil (quite literally) at your fingertips.

Sexy Idea 3:

Continuing with the bedroom theme, why not try out a new sex toy? It doesn't have to be new to the market, just something that you haven't tried before and always fancied. Things like a prostate massager, enjoyable for both parties, or a 10 function vibrating cock ring. Your escort is your oyster.

Sexy Idea 4:

A romantic date – with a twist. When you say 'date', you imagine a cosy restaurant somewhere, buried down a tiny side street with hundreds of candles lighting the place up. You'll have champagne on ice waiting for you and a neat red rose placed across your napkin, right? Well now imagine that you are wearing a remote-controlled rabbit cock ring – and your escort has the remote. At any point he can liven up proceedings by sending a pleasurable thrill through your most sensitive parts. It's sexy, it's naughty and you have no control whatsoever.....So if you fancy relinquishing control for the night, here is a pretty good place to start.

Sexy Idea 5:

Predictable, but also reliable, is idea number 5. In this modern age where many people are still living with their parents, or sharing with a number of housemates, getting some alone time with your escort can be a challenge. So as a Valentine's treat, book yourself and your escort into a hotel for the night and enjoy the privacy, with a glass or two of bubbles to go along with it!

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1. It's a new year! And that means new possibilities. Perhaps you've thought for ages about hiring a gay escort but never quite gone through with it. Well now you can use a brand new January to give you a little lift on your way.
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3. You might want gay sex but be tired/not interested in dating. Gay escorts could be the perfect solution to satiating your desires with absolutely no onward commitment. No-strings fun for a fee!
4. Likewise, with a gay escort you don't need to worry about your sex session following you home. You might be bi-curious, you might not want a soul in the world to know or maybe you like to swap escorts from time to time. Whatever your situation, you can walk out and leave your experience at the door. Win-win.
5. This is a simple one – you might be looking for a one off, single night to have some gay sex fun with absolutely no commitment. An escort will provide this no problem, without the need for you to go through dating sites or using an app on your smartphone. Make the call, make the payment and there you go – a one off night of sex with your gay escort.
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10. Are you a closet case but thinking about coming out? Some gentle, one-on-one gay action could be just the thing you need to ease you out into the marvellous rainbow world.

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We all know the cities with big gay scenes, such as London, Manchester, Birmingham, etc. and whilst you're bound to find a plethora rainbow-themed events and places there, it doesn't mean that the rest of the country is lagging behind. In fact, far from it! The gay network has spread far and wide and now you can find sexy gay spots in virtually all of the UK with a vibrant LGBT community.

South-West of England Cruising

As has been the custom for centuries, cruising round popular gay hotspots is almost guaranteed to find you a willing gay partner. Men of all kinds, and not necessarily those who you would normally see on the gay dating scene, all gravitate to these gay sex hotspots – and all with one aim in mind.... So where are these places, I hear you ask? The answer is, all over. But before we begin, there's a bit of housekeeping that we need to care of: safety first. Society is undoubtedly liberal these days, but there are limitations. So, when you're choosing your sexy gay spot, bear in mind the possibility of being mugged or attacked and stay safe. You also need to make sure that you're not contravening any laws. To this end, anywhere with the police or the general public are best avoided in these situations.

There are gay cruising spots all across the South-West of England. To name a few towns boasting these:

• Exeter
• Barnstaple
• Honiton
• Salterton
• Plymouth

Gay hotspots generally change with the season so check online to find out the best areas – the info is easily available. South West Gay Saunas

Otherwise known as gay bathhouses, these places are definitely not for bathing. In fact, these establishments are purely designed for gay men to have sex. There are gay saunas in Torquay, Plymouth and Exeter.

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South West Gay Bars and Hotels

If saunas and cruising are not your thing, you can also take advantage of the many, many bars and gay hotels in the South-West. The Stumble Bar in Torquay stands out as one such place and it has connotations with the Queen of Crime herself – Agatha Christie.

If you're looking for somewhere gay-friendly to stay during your visit to the SW, then you're in luck! These hotels are generally gay-owned and often have themed LGBT events throughout the year. Some of these include:

• The Croyde Bay Holiday Resort (Croyde has a thriving gay scene)
• The Old Rectory Hotel, in Exmoor
• Palm Grove, Torquay
• Crofton House Hotel, Torquay

But perhaps you'd prefer a little more privacy for a sexy gay getaway? In which case self-catered accommodation could be more your thing. There are plenty of options for you scattered throughout the SW, such as the Millmans Holiday Cottages in Marldon, Bedford House Holiday Apartments and The Muntham Apartments, both in the quintessentially English Riviera town of Torquay.

So, no matter what you're looking for, be it gay hook-ups, a gay-friendly getaway in Devon or Cornwall or something more hardcore, you can be assured of finding it in the South-West of England.

With the New Year comes an expanded air of tantalising possibilities. Out with the old, in with the new, and if you've been keen for some time to extend your sexual repertoire, then this could be the perfect time to seize the day and start now!

Sensual Gay Films

Most gay men have run through a large number of gay porn films in their quest for sexual satisfaction, and X-rated action is probably familiar to most. But instead of searching for pure sexual satisfaction, why not steer away from the explicit and explore popular mainstream films focusing on homosexual relationships in society? Sometimes, more sophistication is better than less.

Films to try include:

1. Weekend Shortbus
2. I Killed My Mother
3. A Single Man
4. Pride

You can rely on these films to tickle your sexual fancies without belonging to the explicit pornography genre.

New Sexual Positions

Most of us have a good idea of the mainstream positions and have probably tried most of them. But in a nod to the New Year, you could toy with the idea of position experimentation for both receiver and pitcher. So, what's new, pussy cat? The answer is plenty – just don't forget to shower and cleanse before you embark on any of these....

1. Flat doggie. This sees the receiver lying on their front with a pillow under their groin, giving a wonderful lift to the bottom for the pitcher behind.
2. Cliff Diver. The receiver will be on all fours on the floor. Once the pitcher has penetrated, he then lifts the receiver, allowing his legs to wrap around the pitcher's waist so the thrusting fun can begin. Note: this position requires strong leg muscles and a good degree of co-ordination!
3. Rusty Trombone. In a departure from the traditional receiver/pitcher roles, this position means equal opportunities and equal roles for both. It's also pretty simple; take a bed, hilltop or wooden plank (see where I'm going with this?) and one partner lies back whilst the other straddles their chest to push their bottom down and into the face of the lier-down. From this position, mutual analingus can be enjoyed.
4. There's another interesting position to try if you think it's time for the receiver to do some work. This gay sex position sees the pitcher sitting back on a chair, with his heels resting on the chair as well, leaving his cock to point front and centre. The receiver then gets down and backs himself onto the penis, which allows him to create to all the thrust and speed of this sexual encounter.

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But if you're looking for more explosive new things to try, there are plenty of other possibilities. A gay sex threesome, for example. Using a gay escort for this reason has all sorts of advantages. Or if you want to push the boat out a little further, then you can try the hedonistic atmosphere of organised gay sex parties. Whatever your ideas are for the New Year, take the time to indulge yourself. After all, you only live once.

Sex toys for men are no longer taboo, which can only be a good thing as more interesting and exciting ones are being released onto the market each year. They range from the simple and fairly innocent, to downright dirty and sexy.

Here is a small selection of options available to get you started, but just about anything you can think of is out there, waiting for you to try it.

Cock rings – There are several types of cock ring and most are widely available. You'll sometimes even find them in the men's bathroom dispensers next to the condoms. They vary from delicate elastic and sometimes vibrating rings, to adjustable rings, to metal rings specifically designed for your size. Cock rings are great fun to use on your own or with your partner as they keep you hard and make you last longer. But one thing is guaranteed, when you do cum you'll cum hard!

Fleshlights and massagers – These sleeves are hand masturbators that allow you to use your hand but it feels 100x better. Some are a simple silicon design, with various nodules and ridges for pleasure and some look just like your favourite anus, so you can let your imagination go wild. They are ideal to use on your own or to liven things up with your partner.

Prostate massagers, butt plugs and vibrators – When it comes to anal play the market is extremely varied. Whether you are just starting out or looking to try something bigger, there is a huge range of dildos, butt plugs, prostate massagers and vibrators to choose from. This is a great choice to create intimacy with your partner and have some fun playing around.

Cock cages, penis pumps and penis plugs – For the more advanced man who wants to push his limits and try something a little different, there are many toys out there to explore. Cock cages allow you to tease your partner until he can't take it anymore and are the perfect addition to any BDSM collection.

Penis pumps might not be considered a toy in the same sense, although they'll definitely give you and your partner a thrill when you see the difference in size after a few weeks. Penis plugs are a more niche item, designed for those interested in urethra play. Varying in size and intensity, they are gently placed up the urethra in the head of the penis and some are held in place with a cock ring that goes around the head of the penis. The feeling is intense and the pressure builds quickly, giving you a rocking orgasm that you'll never forget. This is definitely one to build trust with your partner as you are at your most vulnerable, but the rewards are certainly worth it.

Sex toys can be a great addition to your sex life as they liven things up and offer greater pleasure than you ever imagined. Get adventurous with your partner and don't be afraid to try new things; you can take it at your pace.

From us all here at sleepyboy.com, we wish you a happy and peaceful New Year

Christmas is coming and that means a whirlwind of cold weather, hot chocolate, woollen gloves and scarves and roasted chestnuts. There are plenty of places to entertain your hot gay escort, but at this time of year, why not try a few festive dates to get into that holiday mood? Hit the town so you can both have a little mulled wine fuelled fun.

Cool Dates with a Gay Escort

Ice skating. Now, this isn't for everyone but there is a certain thrill to slipping into tight-laced boots and taking to the ice. Balance and confidence are essential for staying upright and you'll soon see whether your gay escort is a man or a mouse. And if one of you gets a bit wobbly on your blades then what a perfect excuse that is for holding hands! Not to mention that you get to look all cute in a woollen hat and mittens.

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Christmas lights. Wrap up warm and go into town to see the turning on of the Christmas lights. Those colourful bulbs twinkling away in stars and trees have come to symbolise Christmas for some, and you and your escort can stroll hand in hand along the high street and start enjoying them right from the beginning. There are usually street stalls as well if you get peckish and fancy a bag of roasted chestnuts.

Winter Snow Dates with a Gay Escort

Snow balls and sledge fun. Weather permitting, getting dressed up warmly and venturing out into the snow to have a play is a great idea. It means having fun, frolics and laughs together as you cover each other with sprinkles of snow or go bombing down the hill on a homemade sledge. And the best bit of being out in that cold? Afterwards you get to have a hot, steamy shower to thoroughly warm up...........

Relaxed Festive Dates with a Gay Escort

For a more low key festive date, a visit to your local coffee shop could fit the bill. Why not try one of their special, winter-themed drinks? Wait until the evening to go so that it's cold and dark outside and you're nice and cosy inside, sipping your gingerbread latte and flicking smouldering looks to your hot gay escort. If coffee isn't your thing, then head to the pub for a warming glass of mulled wine.

Local Dates with a Gay Escort

Local attraction. Depending what you have round your way, lots of local attractions have special events on over Christmas. Book in advance to go with your escort and think Christmas trees sparkling with coloured lights on a day so cold that you can see your breath in the air. There's nothing like getting into the Christmas spirit early.

Traditional Christmas Dates with a Gay Escort

Traditional date. If you're lucky, there may be a new Christmas film out at the cinema for you to enjoy with your gay escort. Being snuggled up in the dark on the back row could see you reliving your teenage years….. But if there's nothing on, you can make your own cosy cinema at home with popcorn, eggnog and maybe a cheeky shot of Baileys to light way towards that tantalising kiss on the sofa.

Steamy Dates with a Gay Escort

When it is cold outside one of the best ways to celebrate the festive season is to stay indoors, stay warm and crank up the heat by spending time with a gay escort. Whether you want you escort to come dressed as a naughty santa ready to dominate you or just as they are for a passionate experience gay Escorts can make you have a very merry Christmas indeed!

There are some towns and cities within the UK that are well known for having a vibrant gay scene. First we had London, then Manchester and then Brighton to name a few of the biggies. It's easy to see why the gay scene has become so popular in these places; there's lots of gay pubs, clubs and wine bars, all displaying that little rainbow sign to make them easily identifiable.

Sexy Gay Wales

With a high proportion of gay people, others have historically become more tolerant and the wider the community, the more acceptance there was. All of this means that thriving gay scene developed in larger towns and cities, rather than smaller ones or out into more rural areas. But now, the tide is turning rapidly and the new up and coming gay hotspot is not a single town or city - it's Wales.

So why are we seeing more and more rainbow signs popping up in Wales?

It's a lovely place! Once, it was only the bigger towns and cities that were stereotyped as ‘gay cities' and there was a prevailing belief that the smaller towns were closed-minded. Obviously, that is certainly not true today and thank goodness acceptance is the norm, which is why we are seeing a rapid expansion of the gay network. Having a gay scene established meant that the LGBT cohort flock to these places because they perceive them to gay friendly and simply a great place to visit.

Wales is of course known for its rolling hills, clumps of forest and tranquil, beautiful scenery. This scenery attracts art-based people who use it as their inspiration for all sorts of things such as writing, painting or pottery. Encouraging these creative, open-minded people to come to Wales has created a tolerant atmosphere which has allowed a thriving gay community to build up. Outlying market towns with that bohemian feel have flung their arms wide open to the LGBT scene. And in many places there is also an LGBT focus on local businesses; anything from wine bars and dog walking to decorating, which also encourages inclusivity.

But, of course we mustn't forget that the rural nature of beautiful Wales makes it the ideal place to go cruising. There's plenty of land that's hidden from sight and shadowy carparks for that extra frisson of fun.

Gay Fun in Cardiff

This jewel in the crown of Wales has begun to expand massively in the last few years in terms of its gay scene. This has now put down proper roots in the city, following the example of London, Manchester, York and Brighton that have gone before them. There's the opportunity for gay people to come and live in an up and coming place and shape the future development of the city to make sure that those neon rainbow signs become more and more commonplace.