A heady mix of sun, sand, sea and salsa are the order of the day when you take a trip to Barcelona in Spain. It has a thriving gay community, an eclectic outlook on life and is the perfect city to visit if you want to have a good time and meet some new friends. It also has some of the hottest gay men on the planet including very sexy Spanish Gay Escorts!

Things to do in Barcelona

For those who like to dance the night away there are nightclubs galore, excellent food for those with more gastronomic interests and a host of great architecture, shops and other places to go for those looking for traditional holiday activities.

The most popular gay area lies around L'Eixample which has been renamed Gayxample in recent years. The bar life starts pretty late here, mainly because the norm is to eat around 9:30, but you're guaranteed a good time. The clubs get going around two in the morning and once you've danced into the early hours you can head down to the beach if you have enough energy left. Sitges beach town is a popular destination for the LGBT community and has two small gay friendly spots with bars and restaurants nearby.

Where to Eat and Drink

One problem with Barcelona is that you're spoiled for choice. If you prefer a slower pace, a bar such as Punto will be more your style. Fancy young and trendy? Then Dietrich or Zeltas will do you just fine. All these are within walking distance of Gayxample which can be accessed on the metro; just get off at Universitat station and you're there. You'll find a number of cruising bars here like the popular leather bar New Chaps. To get personal tips on where to party or to spend a fun steamy evening in, book a Barcelona GayEscort.

Shopping and Sight Seeing in Barcelona

Barcelona's main shopping road is Passeig de Gràcia and if you can't find something to excite your wallet there's no helping you. From high class designer fashions, including Stella McCartney and Prada, to more off beat niche stores, the centre of the city is a hive of shopping wonderland. If you're looking to take in the sights at the same time, don't miss out on the world famous Sagrada Familia and the architecturally superb Gothic Quarter. Museums and galleries abound and you may need more than just a few days to explore.

Where to Stay

There are hundreds of places to stay and most of the hotels are LGBT friendly. If you want to be close to the Gayxample area, you could do worse than Acevi Villarroel or the Barceló Raval (which incidentally has some great views out over the city). The main gay hotel in the city is the Axel Hotel Barcelona which also has its own spa and pool. If you want companionship in Barcelona then you can choose to take a Gay Escort with you (see which guys will travel at www.sleepyboy.com) or use the search function (at the same website) for Barcelona Gay Escorts.

Gay Events in Barcelona

There's plenty going on in this thriving city for the LGBT community and most of the bars have a theme night of one sort of another going on throughout the year. There's a gay and lesbian tennis tournament held at the end of August, if you are sports minded. The main pride event in Barcelona takes place around July time and there's a lot to take in. The pride parade heads through the centre of town to the beach and there are numerous stalls, concerts and other treats to catch your attention. You'll need some stamina though because the whole event usually lasts two to three weeks.

If you haven't visited Barcelona yet - it's a must at least once in a life time. You'll get a warm welcome, enjoy very sexy men in a vibrant city and catch some sun at the same time.

There are many different types of gay orgasms men can have, but how to have the best orgasm? Here are some tips:

Find your favourite gay escort

When chasing the most amazing gay Orgasm you will probably want to be doing it with a hot sexy gay man who wants to pleasure you – the best way of doing this is with a gay escort. The best reason for this is because when you are spending time with a gay escort its all about you, your wants, your needs, your orgasm. You don't have to worry about pleasuring him at all, you don' have to worry you will hurt his feelings if you ask for something a little different to what he is doing you can be direct and get exactly what you want.

Steamy Gay Escorts

Because you choose the gay escort he will also be someone you find irresistibly attractive, and this is half the battle when it comes to getting horny enough for an explosive orgasm. Every bit of you must be tingling to achieve the best orgasm possible and the sexiness of a gay escort can only add to that excitement. Gay Escorts also have a lot of experience when it comes to gay sex and they will be able to pleasure you better than even a long-term partner because they have some serious sexual skills to share.

Find a position you love

Again, its all about you – what is your favourite position, how do you like to be handled, what do you like to be wearing (if anything) or what are the gay sex toys, horny phrases or favourite gay porn that really gets you off – whatever is your pleasure get it on and enjoy.

Lots of foreplay

To make your really, really horny is the way to an explosive orgasm and one of the best ways to get really horny is lots and lots of foreplay. Resit the urge to get right to it and really play with your gay escort or let him play with you the longer you are horny for, the better the orgasm will be.

Mind Erotics

Lots of sex is actually in the mind – yes it is! Your mind needs to be horny so that your body can respond in the best way possible. So if you like dirty talk to get your mind and imagination going then talk away, if you like to role play to get your mind in the mood then go for it – whatever keeps your mind thinking steamy thoughts will help your body feel the pleasure.

Find a Rhythm

Don't go hard, go steady – when you finally get to the penetrative stage of sex really find a rhythm more than just a hard drilling it will make you come to the edge of satisfaction so many times before you actually orgasm, and the orgasm will be so much better for it. Tell you Gay escort when you feel like you are going to come so he can slow you down and make you wait just that little bit longer.

Sex is adult playtime, it can also be adult exercise time and adult mood improving time, so the better the gay sex, the better we feel – lets take a look at some of the reasons why:

Endorphins & Gay Sex

We have all heard of endorphins and know they are good for us and natural stress busters, but did you know that they are released when we are having great sex. Of course you did! And if you didn’t you do now! Endorphins have also been found to stimulate immune system cells that fight of disease so the more gay sex you have the healthier you will be! Endorphins also dampen pain and sooth nerve impulses making them truly great hormones!

Relaxation After gay Sex is Amazing

There is no better feeling for relaxation than just after an orgasm, when your body has felt the amazing release and now wants to relax and rest. Your body and mind are both relaxed at the same time so the relaxation you feel from gay sex is the best you will feel. It is no wonder is it so easy to have a snooze after a great gay sex session with a Gay Escort.

Waiting for sex, or feeling horny for a long time, days (sometimes weeks) and not having it does make you a little pent up and more aggressive than usual, masturbating can release some of the tension but it is only a really good sex session that truly releases the built up tension felt when you have gone too long without an intimate and sexy experience.

Gay Sex is Good Exercise

Even the NHS says you can use sex as exercise so the more you have the better you will feel. Anything that gets your heart pumping is good for your fitness level, and the great thing about gay sex is it can be as energetic or as restful as you want it to be. Along with the physical act of sex, arousal also gets your heart rate pumping, so the hornier you are, the more good you are doing for your body!

Intimacy is good for us

There is a good reason why masturbating does not make us feel as good as having great gay sex, there is no personal contact or intimacy there. With a Gay Escort you get the feeling of another body beside you, touching your skin and making you horny without you having to do a thing, somebody who is there just for you to make you feel good is good mood heaven!

Orgasms are good for us, gay sex is good for us but when you combine great gay sex, with a sexy gay escort who is there to make you feel amazing, add onto that a mind blowing orgasm and you have some pretty healthy feeling, mood improving hormones racing through your body and mind, making you feel better about your body, improving your mood.

Finding the perfect partner is difficult and if you are a gay man, the challenge can be even harder. Because most of us didn't have gay relationship's around us when we were growing up, either in our communities or in the media, exactly what a good gay relationship looks like can be a mystery!

Gay Dating is Hard

Finding the perfect partner is hard, finding someone who you click with emotionally, sexually and who also who wants to settle down and be in a monogamous relationship at the same time as you are looking for this can seem like looking for a needle in a haystack.

If you are out in any gay bar then most men in there are probably not looking for a serious relationship, the same goes for any online apps. Routes to dating for our straight counterparts is little easier as it is more acceptable for them to ask each other out on dates in the workplace or within friendship groups, knowing is who is gay and may respond to your advances in these scenarios can be a minefield. Finding a Date

Finding someone you actually like in the real world, and in the online world can take a long time and be very difficult, and the more time it takes to find someone special, the more it can get your down and you doubt you will find anyone to have a relationship with. Add this to the pressures of modern life when most men work long hours with little time for an active social life and the problem of finding gay love is compound.

Gay Escorts are Amazing

Gay escorts are amazing because they fill an important gap between partners, or for some of us instead of partners. Monogamy is not for everyone and sharing your life with just one person forever doesn't suit all of us, and there is no problem with that but sometimes we want a bit more than just a quick fuck. Gay Escorts, especially if you have a regular meeting with the same one, can fill in the gap between relationships and a stranger met in the pub.

Spending a few hours with a professional gay escort is a pleasure, more that quick sex escorts deliver a great sexual experience that you will want to repeat again and again. If you are feeling horny for your favourite fetish an escort can whip you or spank you, but if you are in a romantic mood, your escort can wine and dine you before a sensual massage and soft sensual sex. Gay Escorts are there for you and your pleasure, they can be there instead of, between or alongside relationships and the gay sex is simply amazing.

In the first place it's quite simple - there are not many people who would be happy with all the gory details of their sex life with gay escorts being openly known to others. But then we move onto secondary reasons and this is where the game really becomes serious. This is because there are many, many men for whom discretion is an absolutely key part of their experience with a gay escort, never mind confidentiality. The reasons for this can be many and varied, but we'll take a look at the top reasons that confidentiality can be required with a gay escort below.

1. Being married. Marriage usually comes with a close family unit, and even though this doesn't need to be the standard heterosexual couple with 2.4 children, for many men it's a still a marriage that they want/need preserved. Fun with a gay escort is something that can be just that – fun – and not something that men want incorporated into their lives because it's not that important to them and they don't want to risk a solid relationship.
2. Religion. This is more of a thorny issue. There are a few key religions where homosexuality is still frowned upon, though many have made massive leaps in recent years. However, with a long-established negative stance on gay sex within the church, there are still a number of worshippers for whom gay sex is completely taboo. For some gay men, it's not worth the hassle of explaining, so they need to keep their sexual action on the downlow. Luckily this outdated concept is rapidly becoming unacceptable.
3. Being 'in the closet'. This is rapidly becoming less of an issue on the LGBT scene, but there are still plenty of men for whom the metaphorical closet is a safe space to stay. And even if they do come out, it's still quite a leap from being gay to using a gay escort. Of course, sexual practices are usually private to that person, so this doesn't mean that they don't tell anyone, but it has to be within their choice. And if their wider group of family and friends have no idea that gay sex with an escort is even on the radar, confidentiality between client and escort becomes a necessity.
4. And here's a hefty reason – work! For most of us, work is an essential, intrinsic thing in our lives. We build homes and families upon it, we need to pay our rent or mortgage, we save to have a summer holiday – all things which could disappear if you are misfortunate enough to work in a homophobic environment. You can protest all you like about the unfairness and inequality in the workplace, but ultimately if your colleagues/boss know about your trysts with a trans escort, then it could result in the loss of job and that just not a risk worth taking.

Happily, for most reputable gay escorts confidentiality comes as standard, so it won't be an issue for you.

Tantra simply means having sex without an orgasm, and where's the fun in that? However, the truth behind this art could not be more different to the common perception of Tantra. By using its inherent skills, you could find that your orgasm does indeed scale new heights of dizzy pleasure, and who doesn't want that?!

Where to start?

In this digital age it's easy to find instructions for most things on the internet, but Tantra should not be one of them. There are all sorts of A-Z guides for curious lovers eager to try new things and how to learn how to do Tantra, but the absolute best way to get a grip on this (pun unintended!) is by visiting an expert – someone for whom this is their day to day trade. There are many massage parlours which offer this service, but for the best experience, choose an expert. Someone who specialises solely in Tantra.

What can I expect when I get there?

A true Tantra expert will have a room dedicated to the practice. It's important to soak up a rich atmosphere of candles, joss sticks, whale music and muted light from a plethora of table lamps to relax the soul before you even start. Your gay massager will be very used to putting clients at ease and enjoying themselves right from the start. You will disrobe and be given a towel for modesty purposes if you feel that you need this. Rather weirdly and due to Tantra's Hindu roots, from hereon in your penis will be known as Lingham, which means ‘wand of light'; rather unique, don't you think?

Once you are on the couch, your gay Tantra massager will begin by slowly working down the muscles in your body, head to toe to ensure full relaxation. It's important to remember that your brain is the key to creating Tantric pleasure, so concentrate on emptying your mind to achieve this. You will probably then be asked to lie on your back, legs apart so your entire Lingam area is open to your massager. Penetration does not take place during Tantric massage, but that doesn't mean that you won't experience intense pleasure.

The massage itself is a very slow and sensual one. Because your massager will have access to your whole Lingam area, he can stimulate your Lingam, perineum and bottom. But slowly and with great ease. Your penis will be touched gently and specific attention will be directed at the head of your Lingam.

What happens if I can't get an erection?

This is a fear that most men have, but in Tantra it doesn't matter. Pleasure is about more than the Lingam, so if it goes a little soft, that's fine. It's doubtless bound to pick up as the massage goes on!

What happens if I ejaculate?

A professional Tantric massager won't let that happen. Though they will be gently touching and stimulating the whole area and especially the head of the Lingam, they will back off for a bit if orgasm seems imminent.

Tantra is all about recognising your body's desires and learning how to satiate yourself in a different way to normal, therefore bringing you heightened orgasms.

It's a good question actually. With the expansion of the film and cinema world over the last century, each new step seems to trump the one before it, which is no surprise. However, we now seem to have reached a plateau of the cinematic world. The buzzwords now are: Netflix, Amazon Prime, video streaming, films on demand. Consumers are used to having their every film whim at their fingertips. But yet, there is still a loyal cohort who favour DVDs over virtual TV. Why?

To start with the basics, the sound and picture quality of streaming video is in no way as good as physical media (by which I mean tangible media, not the literally physical). And let's face it, good quality sound and vision can make or break an enjoyable viewing. Stick with the DVDs for a guaranteed way to keep that quality high, which is important if you're settling in for a while. With video-streaming, it's all too easy to just watch short clips of the action, moving from one to ‘tother as you please. Which is all well and good if variety is what you're after, but if you're looking for something you can really get into, then having a DVD right there with your favourite film is far preferable to scouring the web for something which might fit the criteria, but equally might not, and then you discover that's a premium video so you have to pay. But ah-ha! Not with a gay porn DVD you don't. Stick it on your TV, your laptop, anywhere you like, sit back and relax.

They might be slightly more cumbersome to carry around than your iPad, but gay porn DVDs can be enjoyed, no matter where you are. They are not reliant on the vagaries of home wi-fi networks or dodgy internet connections when you're out and about. So even if you're in the middle of the North Sea wending your way to the Shetland Islands, you will still be able to watch your favourite scenes – over and over again....

Reliability. That's a big one on the porn scene, especially if you prefer the longer films. No-one wants an interrupted viewing experience when they're enjoying some on-screen action, so you can trust a gay porn DVD to run smoothly throughout and not let you down as you come to the end (no pun intended). Streaming porn runs the risk of becoming a victim of bad internet connections, which is a guaranteed way to irritate the absorbed viewer. So if you're looking for a particular scene, or film, or sexual activity – a DVD will give you something you can rely on.

We're straying back into the dark ages now with Added Features. Gay porn DVDs will offer outtakes, deleted scenes and all kinds of other delights on their discs, just to let you enjoy the porn a little more. There's nothing quite like taking a sneak peak round the back to intrigue and arouse you even more. And sadly, that's not something currently offered by video streaming.

Who doesn't like to wank off to some good gay porn? So, when it comes to being sexually satisfied the questions is would you rather watch some dirty gay porn or hire the services of a hot gay escort?

Gay Escort vs Gay Porn

When it comes to your steamy sexual desires, two ways to live out these horny gay fantasies are by watching porn, or hiring the services of a gay escort. Both have advantages to them, and both boast beneficial effects which can better our lives, but which one of these options comes out on top?

Gay Porn

Gay Porn is an exciting and accessible creation, it has been around since the dawn of time, when man would paint on walls of caves - not only would it educate, it was there to titillate too. Now, thousands of years on, with the wonders of technology at our fingertips, porn and the adult industry has really taken hold, as pretty much any fetish is catered for, and no horny gay fantasy is left untouched.

Gay Porn can come in many formats, from seamy films, to naughty pictures, to quirky cartoons to filthy gay sex stories, all of which are highly erotic and enticing. The problem with Gay Porn is that to access high quality horny porn it can come with an ongoing membership fee that takes your bank details and can link back to you. If you go for the free gay porn then your computer virus scanner will be in overdrive so be very careful!

Gay Escorts

Gay Porn also lacks the obvious human touch. It is all very well to imagine yourself in the scenario presented in the porn, if you get some quality lube and pace yourself it can last quite a while but real touching and the feel of a hard man satisfying you is just not something you get when watching a screen!

If you choose to live out your sexy gay fantasies by spending time with a horny gay escort, then things are certainly simpler. Firstly, you know what you are getting, and there aren't any surprises, your personal information is secure, as escorts pride themselves on discretion at all times.

Gay Sex Fantasies

Hiring the services of gay escort goes a lot further than letting a gay porn scene unfold in your head. The reality of it all is wonderful as you are experiencing them physically, one to one - or more if you so desire. A gay escort can make your naughty sexy dreams a reality. Whatever your kink or desire, whether you just want a hot, hard and horny man to fuck you all night or you have BDSM fantasies, clothing fantasies or other interesting fantasies it is a Gay Escort that can really make them come true.

Nothing beats the touch of another human being. It is something we all naturally crave, so to put it as basically as possible, the attention of a gay escort wins every time over porn - or anything else for that matter.